An Introduction to people who dont know me.

My name is Hina Madhumal. I'm not going to state my age..but my star sign is Virgo..am born on 13th of Sept. In the chinese year, am Tiger. I have quite a complicated story...so I like to keep my life very simple :) I am from India, married to a Spaniard and living in china currently. Have a very active little daughter called Eva. She is a lovely angel and she's my life. My family means the world to me. It comes above everything else. I always keep my word. I believe in soulmates and love at first sight. I am very, very feminine. I love lace and silk and leather and brocade and...well I love clothes. I am a fashion designer and I like to see beauty in all things around me. I am a positive person and very realistic...yes! in spite of my dreamy nature. Being a mother has been an experience that has made me love and appreciate my parents. I am not a feminist, but believe that women are just stronger willed and can handle things better than most men. I like chivalry in a man. I find my inspiration from nature and when I day dream. I love being with people and I am very passionate about style. If I think you are my friend ...You are an extention of my family. If I love u I accept you for what you are. My openness and brashness is misunderstood and I know I should change that....but it's who I am. I am loyal and faithful..I love all the seasons...I like to watch the sunset. I am NOT a morning person and my husband has learnt to give me my space when I wake up so I don't spit fire(heheh) I like to eat food and cook food and like and respect all artists. I am terriable with finance...I thinks its horrifying to put a price or to bargain a piece of art. Have a very very keen sence of smell which makes my life misarable...but helps me figure out recepies, perfumes and sometimes people. I am very intutive..but non judgemental. I love new cultures and travelling. I believe all people are good BUT If you hurt me, I will never talk to you again. I cannot stand people who are judgemental . I don't like people who think being pushy=being confidant. If I am kind does not mean I am to be taken for a fool. I have strong views and opinions on everything. I believe in angles. I think life is how you think of it. Everything is possiable..u need to dream it hard enough!!















Tuesday, August 2, 2011

I don´t Judge.....

     My upbringing was such that I have been taught not to discuss other peoples lives, not to gossip or be quick to judge others. I quickly realized that ´ Treat others as you would like to be treated´is just a beautiful phrase . We as humans are quite cruel and quick to judge. On top of it we even have images of other cultures and people. How they behave and how they are...even before we know them! Let me say a few quick words and you think of the first thing that pops up un your head. German. Brazil. Americans. Muslims. Jews. Indians. Swiss. Bangladesh. There were countries....now, Models, Actor, swimmer, Ambani, maid. So you see whether you like it or not they already have an image. When you don´t judge...you don´t envy others. No one knows whats behind the beautiful woman's lovely smile, or what the lucky mother with the perfect angel of a baby has to put up at home. Or how the successful, jet setting business person feels on the inside. Don´t look at others and talk with your heart full of envy. Its the ugliest a human can become. What someone wears, or how much they drink, or don´t drink or likes the ladies...whatever!!  Its none of our business. So live and let live!! Believe me life is better this way :)