An Introduction to people who dont know me.

My name is Hina Madhumal. I'm not going to state my age..but my star sign is Virgo..am born on 13th of Sept. In the chinese year, am Tiger. I have quite a complicated story...so I like to keep my life very simple :) I am from India, married to a Spaniard and living in china currently. Have a very active little daughter called Eva. She is a lovely angel and she's my life. My family means the world to me. It comes above everything else. I always keep my word. I believe in soulmates and love at first sight. I am very, very feminine. I love lace and silk and leather and brocade and...well I love clothes. I am a fashion designer and I like to see beauty in all things around me. I am a positive person and very realistic...yes! in spite of my dreamy nature. Being a mother has been an experience that has made me love and appreciate my parents. I am not a feminist, but believe that women are just stronger willed and can handle things better than most men. I like chivalry in a man. I find my inspiration from nature and when I day dream. I love being with people and I am very passionate about style. If I think you are my friend ...You are an extention of my family. If I love u I accept you for what you are. My openness and brashness is misunderstood and I know I should change that....but it's who I am. I am loyal and faithful..I love all the seasons...I like to watch the sunset. I am NOT a morning person and my husband has learnt to give me my space when I wake up so I don't spit fire(heheh) I like to eat food and cook food and like and respect all artists. I am terriable with finance...I thinks its horrifying to put a price or to bargain a piece of art. Have a very very keen sence of smell which makes my life misarable...but helps me figure out recepies, perfumes and sometimes people. I am very intutive..but non judgemental. I love new cultures and travelling. I believe all people are good BUT If you hurt me, I will never talk to you again. I cannot stand people who are judgemental . I don't like people who think being pushy=being confidant. If I am kind does not mean I am to be taken for a fool. I have strong views and opinions on everything. I believe in angles. I think life is how you think of it. Everything is possiable..u need to dream it hard enough!!















Thursday, February 24, 2011

Modern Masks.

     Through out history and across countries, humans have worn masks. To hide their feeling´s, to pretend they are someone else, for religious reason, theaters, Balls etc. Now a days you see more and more people, esp. older women walking around with their modern masks...To hide their true selves. How have we come to a point in our culture where older women want to look like they are still young? To compete with the younger women? Why do we feel ashamed of our wrinkles? saggy skin? Our soft tummies that are evidence of having borne children? What is it that makes us want to hide every passage of time?
     The core of human interaction is looking at faces, trying to guess the age of a person, to gauge his/her experience of life. our wrinkles show the world how we have laughed, cried, been disappointed, our dignity. Erasing it makes u somehow loose dignity...It´s not interesting anymore. It´s your whole life's experience written on your skin...u have earned each and everyone of it....why would u mutate your body and skin to get rid of your achievements? Yes..a 20 year old has a flat taunt tummy..not every women is lucky to have her tummy looking the same as it used to when she was 20. is that so bad? All the stretch marks on my soft tummy( which never goes back -even after exercise) reminds me of the 9 beautiful months when my daughter was being created inside of me. That is such a wonderful feeling that- I Don't´t mind the stretch marks or the softness.
    There so so much marketing...in clothes, creams, Images in magazines of how a women should look like...But where is the intelligence of the educated modern woman? She should know that´s it´s just manipulation so u can buy the clothes, creams, surgeries...
   What message are we giving the younger women? It´s time to think before we all give in to these ridicules ideas of beauty. A beautiful woman is a woman who is confidant of her self, comfortable in her own skin and always dignified in every situation. I would hate my grandmother or my mother to erase their beautiful wrinkles...to have so much toxic stuffed into their faces that they cannot smile well or frown....
             I don´t think secure women need these modern masks.......

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