An Introduction to people who dont know me.

My name is Hina Madhumal. I'm not going to state my age..but my star sign is Virgo..am born on 13th of Sept. In the chinese year, am Tiger. I have quite a complicated story...so I like to keep my life very simple :) I am from India, married to a Spaniard and living in china currently. Have a very active little daughter called Eva. She is a lovely angel and she's my life. My family means the world to me. It comes above everything else. I always keep my word. I believe in soulmates and love at first sight. I am very, very feminine. I love lace and silk and leather and brocade and...well I love clothes. I am a fashion designer and I like to see beauty in all things around me. I am a positive person and very realistic...yes! in spite of my dreamy nature. Being a mother has been an experience that has made me love and appreciate my parents. I am not a feminist, but believe that women are just stronger willed and can handle things better than most men. I like chivalry in a man. I find my inspiration from nature and when I day dream. I love being with people and I am very passionate about style. If I think you are my friend ...You are an extention of my family. If I love u I accept you for what you are. My openness and brashness is misunderstood and I know I should change that....but it's who I am. I am loyal and faithful..I love all the seasons...I like to watch the sunset. I am NOT a morning person and my husband has learnt to give me my space when I wake up so I don't spit fire(heheh) I like to eat food and cook food and like and respect all artists. I am terriable with finance...I thinks its horrifying to put a price or to bargain a piece of art. Have a very very keen sence of smell which makes my life misarable...but helps me figure out recepies, perfumes and sometimes people. I am very intutive..but non judgemental. I love new cultures and travelling. I believe all people are good BUT If you hurt me, I will never talk to you again. I cannot stand people who are judgemental . I don't like people who think being pushy=being confidant. If I am kind does not mean I am to be taken for a fool. I have strong views and opinions on everything. I believe in angles. I think life is how you think of it. Everything is possiable..u need to dream it hard enough!!















Friday, February 18, 2011

Our obsession with youth.

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    In france a woman's  beauty was not thought to be substantial unless she stayed beautiful after age,36. In Europe a mans 40th birthday is celebrated in a big way because it´s thought that only after that he is a man  of substance.  Then I know women who go through great pains..literally to look like they are in their 20´s. This whole unhealthy obsession with youth is making our society unhealthy. Everyone knows that most girls on advt. billboards and magazines are around 17years..some even as young as 14! The pictures are photo-shoped...still women torture themselves to remain young! Men feel insecure! This blatant obsession with youth and thinness has lead to many young girls dying from starving themselves..many people dying on cosmetic surgery tables ...trying to be perfect. 
      Many in asia are obsessed with the white skin western idea of beauty..going through process like skin whitening and peeling process without being adequately  warned and educated about it.Chinese men and women trying to have bigger eyes..biggger breasts.  Skin peels lead to hyper pigmentation in their 40´s. hummm...How can we stop this? How about looking at role models from our own culture and being proud of your individuality? There is just one you...after all..in this whole world!  Why not make her/him the most beautiful? Take pride in yourself and love yourself and accept others for what they are. We are a more interesting world with all our differences than everyone looking the same. Make the best of your looks without trying to look 20. Love yourself enough not to mutilate with botox or peels...or worse. 

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